Relationship

There is no relationship without a commitment and there cant be a commitment without a relationship.

 

A relationship hard to make easy to break, Hard to Hold On and Easy to Move On.

It is very easy for us to get in a relationship - without thinking about the repcrussions or the future of the relationship. We tend to like someone, love someone or care for someone - but that doesnt mean that we can start the relationship be it love, friendhip or anything.

 

The reason behind this is a commitment which is required from both sides to maintain the relationship. Commitment doesnt mean a promise to be together - it also means giving time to each other, not telling a lie, giving an ear to each other, not cheating and so many things.

 

We tend to love and care for someone - but we never know when it becomes a possesiveness, also we might take the other person for granted - that is when the problem starts, distance increases and then even when we want to be with each other our EGO's stop is for being together.

 

Thats hard but Thats Life. If Life would have been easy what was the fight am i right :D :)...

 

Sometimes, u want to be in a relationship, but cannot commit anything as you forsee no future of the relationship. It might be due to any reasons - may be society or may be you just cannnot commit as you know you can not hold on

 

In all such situations it is always better to pull yourself and do not get into all such things. It is better to get hurt or hurt someone else now, rather then saying yes today and then suffering yrself or the other person for the whole life.

 

Always think 100 times before you get into a relationship - A commitment today may make you suffer for the whole life but a Indiffernce today would make your life much better maybe not today but in the near future

 

Be Emotional but with Practicality

Be Practical but with Emotions

 

Author: Nidhi Agarwal

Date: 14-04-2011